I don't work well in group chats.
Today I realized something, I don’t work well in group chats, at least not in ones about casual topics, like movies. I have this tendency where I don’t like “losing” an argument with somebody that I don’t respect and I start searching for “vulnerabilites” in their persona where I can say “I am better”. This is an incredibly unhealthy behavior, I am aware. The thing is that I can’t argue about a lot of topics, at least not “common” ones, I have spent too much time only focussing on one thing, tech. I can rarely talk about anything else, at least not in group chats. I don’t like defending my position in front of a group, and that’s usually what the situation ends up as. I think I work better in one-to-one conversations because the entire focus is on me and I like being ignored or being talked over.