Yeah I know I’ve written about masturbation plenty of times but I feel like I can’t stress this enough how important of a topic this is. I can’t talk about women but for men masturbation usually is a really energy-depleting act (sex in general is, see the stereotypical sleep-after-sex man) this seems to be very different for women but as I said, usually it rather tends to give them energy instead of depleting it. Anyway in my experience after experimenting a lot with cycles and pauses to masturbation and inbetween a really huge increase in overall energy and happyness have to tell you, every time I masturbate I experience a huge emotional dip for at least a few hours but might even last 2 days and I just don’t see the purpose of masturbating frequently then, I’ve been a daily masturbator for almost 6 years of my life but for the past 2 I’ve been really trying hard to change that habit because it made me look at women in a worse light than I wanted, sex was on my mind every day, not in the forefront but always there. Nowadays that has changed, I changed my habit from daily to sometimes. I only masturbate when I really feel the urge to which luckily only occures every other week and it only seems to improve. The fact seems to be that masturbation alone depletes your testosterone just like sugar does and so for me the cure for the emotional dip seems to be exercise and good food as it gets my testosterone back up, also good sleep is a big part of it.

Born in 2004 I’m now 18/19 and I’m calling out to my generation, I know a lot of folks even older and younger and masturbation has become widespread and accepted, which is a good thing on one hand. But I pledge you to try and dial it back a bit, here’s how:

Don’t try to force the urge down, sexual energy is a good thing, but now take some time in peace and try to feel the sexual energy flowing through your lower body (or whereever else you might feel it) and now try to release that energy to the rest of your body, use the sexual energy in your body to power yourself, energy is energy and when you learn to control where to put it you’ll soon easily be able to resist temptation and instead use it to strengthen yourself, and some cases seem to show that when you use your sexual energy in a controlled way it seems to affect your aura which apparently makes you more attractive to the other sex.

If you’ve been doing this for a while please let me know if you experience the dip in energy and motivation as well when you do masturbate, I’d be really curious to hear other people’s opinions.

Another tid bit, I don’t want to make this a full but from personal experience with sex. If you struggle with pleasuring your partner with penetrative sex, try more smooth circling motions, like moving from in a circle vertically when you thrust instead of just thrusting like a jackhammer, in most cases jackhammer thrusting doesn’t seem to be doing it for most women (as reported by the “Sex With Emily” Podcast). I wish I had that information a long time ago and I don’t see anybody putting it out there so here I am doing it. Enjoy

Thank you for reading this post, I hope I could change your life just a little bit for the better. Have a nice day